Friday, December 28, 2007
omg. i read my previous posts cuz i got too bored. WANG QIAN IS SO CHILDISH!!!
gosh. though i noe i was still sec 2 at that time. but still!!! lolx.
the thing is.. i saw a lot of names that i tot i had forgotten.. i mean. when's the last time i talked to c n r?? lolx. i hardly think they still remember their little sister lahx! lolx. i guess.. time really does a lot to ppl. thinking back. i realised there are a lot of things whom i tot was rite that may not have been the case. and its like. there are some things which i used to bank my life on... which turned out to be some sick joke. sigh. is that what life is all about? deception and disguise?? is that wad oliver goldsmith is trying to tell ppl? lolx. ah well.
Q~ ♥
12/28/2007 11:22:00 PM
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got this off somewhere. quite cool in my opinion. lolx. ah well.
i mean... yea.. y do we not off our phones at night? who's call or message are we waiting for??
一天，朋友问我一个问题，晚上的时候你关机吗？不关机，那你是为谁呢？
我一向不关机，但是为了什么呢？我不知道，后来我看了一篇文章，我有点明白了，只为了那丝牵挂。现在我把它拿出来与大家分享。
女孩每天临睡会先关掉手机，然后把它放在写字台自己的相架前，这个习惯从买了手机的时候就这样保持着。
女孩有个很要好的男朋友，两个人不见面的时候，就打打电话或发发短信，大家都喜欢这样的联络方式。
有一天夜里，男孩很想念女孩子，打了过去却关机，因为女孩已经睡下了。第二天，男孩对女孩说：“以后晚上不要关机，好么？我想你的时候找不到你，心会不安。”
从那以后，女孩开始另一种习惯——整夜都不关机。因为害怕他打来自己会因睡死而听不到，女孩夜夜都很警醒，人便日渐消瘦。然而，慢慢地，两个人之间还是有了裂痕。
女孩很想挽回即将分手的局面，便在一个深夜里给男孩打电话，回答她的却是很好听的女声：“Sorry，你所拨打的电话已关机。”
于是女孩知道，她的爱情已经关机。
很久以后，女孩有了另一场爱情。虽然两个人在一起的感觉也很好，但女孩怎么也不肯嫁。女孩的心里还是会想起那个男孩的话和那个关机的夜。
女孩还是保持着整夜不关机的习惯，只是不再期待它会响起。
一天夜里，女孩身染急症，慌乱之中把本想拨给父母的电话拨到了新的男友那里。男孩早已睡下，但手机还开着。
后来女孩问这个男孩：“为什么深夜还不关机？”
男孩说：“我怕你夜里有事找不到我，会心慌。”
女孩最终嫁给了这个男孩。
夜深了，你的手机关了吗 ？
Q~ ♥
12/28/2007 03:58:00 PM
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Wednesday, December 26, 2007
城市交响曲
“现在是谣言侵略事实的时代
必须偷看哪个谁是不是在偷看
现在是现在侵略过去的时代
必须悲哀快乐所带来的更悲哀”
-苏打绿
雨，忙碌得下着；像是明白自己的使命一般，努力地下着、下着。人类在害怕；怕这场目的明确的雨会把自己价值连城的衣裳糟蹋， 所以他们努力地奔跑、奔跑。人们的心情拼凑在一起，整个城市的寂寞笼罩了一切。五光十色的浮华本来就是一场冠冕堂皇的美梦，惊醒后，剩下的往往只是一道道莫名的伤口，隐隐作痛。四处张望，看那一张张陌生，僵硬的脸，心里萌生一个疑问：他们会不会笑？大家匆匆的脚步声，打出一种让人跟不上的旋律，令我们疏离彼此，越来越远。
从天堂鸟瞰着大地的神明啊，你难道也迷失了方向？或者，世界就是你给我们的考验？那如何才能征服这场浩劫？到底是人们进入了理智的世界，还是我们脱离了感性的范围？
就在这里，一个不一样的身影映入眼帘。他是与众不同的。相对于在他身边穿梭的人们，此人显得格外落魄；衣衫褴褛，蓬头垢面，骨瘦如柴。他面前摆着一个到处是缺口的瓷碗，坐在一个不起眼的角落。一般人不可能发现他的存在，直到他提起了他那把老旧的吉他。雨仍毫不客气的操纵着世人的脚步，把他逼到墙头仅有的小屋檐下。音符，在这个冷飕飕的街角扬起。经过他的每一双脚，都像是提前说好了一样，下意识的放慢了步伐。
他的琴声，诠释了绕梁三日的极致；时而轻如止水，时而荡气回肠。一切伸缩自如，听进路人们的心房里去了。每一段乐，都传递着温暖。那一霎那，人，好想没那么冷了。打从心里散发出的热量，在大家的面颊染上一层红晕，画出一道道美丽的微笑。在这令人激动的时刻，老天都似乎体会到了我们的震撼；雨，小了，停了。这么一来，他的听众更多了，但他似乎没发现，只是自顾自的波动着琴弦。一首首歌，有些耳熟能详，有些十分新鲜，但统一的是，他们都超出想象的令人感动。
曲子弹完了，人们掌声如雷，欢呼，喝彩，然后渐渐的，人潮散去。我纳闷的看着他们，心里有些懵懂。难道，这就是他们要表示的所有鼓励？ 难道这些人没有看出这演奏者面临的困难？还是，那就是与生俱来的本能？金钱，到底想把人类推往一个什么样的深渊？
望着那空如依稀的碗底，我提那位演奏者深感不值。掏出钱包，挖了挖，找出了几个硬币，投到碗里去。那时的我，很看不起自己。我跟别人，又有什么不一样？ 甚至，我比那些路人更糟！最少他们很真诚地面对了自己的无情，而我，做不到视而不见，却又舍不得慷慨解囊。就在我近乎被自责淹没的同时，演奏者像是感到我的尴尬一般，头抬了一抬，眼睛毫无焦距的望着前方，嘴角慢慢向上微微翘起，吐出两个字：“谢谢”。
我的脸“刷”的红了。
身后，传来一阵不怀好意的笑声。挺着健硕的身躯，一个浓眉大眼的年轻人走到他的身边，伸出他那只穿戴着闪闪发亮的白金指环和名牌手表的爪子，用一种可恨的哭腔在演奏家面前颤抖着：“行行好吧！ 我已经很多天没吃饭了！帮帮忙吧！”
那一刻，我差点没上去赏那败类一巴掌！ 他凭什么如此嘲笑一个深处绝境的，怀才不遇的天才？他凭什么如此冷血的打击他的自尊，侮辱他的人格？他如何对得起他一身的财富？如何对得起上苍赐于他的幸福？他凭什么认为仅仅因他比别人幸运就有资格嘲笑别人？
就在我火冒三丈的当而，一系列的动作在我眼前慢动作地进行着。那演奏家弯下腰，开始在地上毫无头绪的摸索，他的手指看上去好细，但好粗糙，好憔悴。他碰到了他在寻找的瓷碗，从里面检出了我刚投进去的三个硬币，惦了惦重量，挑出那个面值最小的，放进了口袋里，剩下的两个，放进手掌心，坚定的伸出他布满老茧的手。
我惊呆了。但我相信，那一瞬间，那年轻人，肯定比我所承受的震撼更震撼，比我的愧疚还愧疚。我看到那演奏家那天的第二次微笑。那年轻人接过了硬币，善良的硬币，在太阳的照射下，发着属于它们的光芒，都么耀眼。眼睛被刺得好疼。闭上双眼，感觉两行液体慢慢淌下脸颊。
在这个被现代、被文明，丢弃的角落里，人性的故事上演着，循环着，提醒着人类 ---- 生命的本质，不是邪恶，是那三个被滥用太久了的字眼：真、善、美。当冷漠渐渐演绎成一种对生活习惯的方式时，真情的救赎与馈增似乎都带上欺骗和目的。欲望所带给世界的寂寞，把我们搞得灰头土脸，令人们不再愿意寻找真实和温暖。城市中的霓虹灯仿佛团团鬼火，而我们这些小小的，脆弱的飞蛾则情不自禁地被它们勾了过去，最终也化为了点点星辰。飞蛾扑火是一种无奈，一种情不自禁，一种宿命。我们互相看着彼此，明知道自己在沦陷，却仍不顾一切向前一直走，一直走。在有序的混乱中，人性的迷失正引发着一场自我否定的浩劫。
抬起头，努力的想把泪水收回，却无能为力，覆水难收。然而，豁然发现，经过种种沧海桑田的天空依旧那么蔚蓝，雨过天晴的空气格外清新。一个突发奇想把自己考倒了：那演奏家看不见这花花世界，却体会了人性的真谛，那我们呢？我们这幸运的一群，没有身体上的缺陷，为什么却无法正视在我们身上发生的问题？不说别人，就连我自己，又何时才能脱离现实的束缚呢？奇迹，难道真的仅属于梦想的国度？希望，难道不可能会从这一刻开始降临大地；从这篇关于演奏家的文章起，从那年轻人的觉悟起，从那演奏家的无私起……
“这座城市里面 试着让自己没有那么糟
人像落叶迎面 在一座孤独岛中间 我微笑”
-苏打绿
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王茜 07A10
a new essay. the ending a bit weird. cuz i didnt have enough words... so anyhow zham. lolx. sad. aiyah. wadeva lahx. must humour that teacher you see. lolx. its a creative writing that is supposedly about taiwan... lolx. shit. i forgot it must be relating to taiwan. hence. WADEVA~ i shall just tell the teacher i didnt noe. lolx. got do very give him face le ok~ haix. cheerx~
Q~ ♥
12/26/2007 03:27:00 PM
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Tuesday, December 25, 2007
hi guys!! merry christmas~~~ lolx.
Q~ ♥
12/25/2007 12:52:00 PM
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Friday, December 21, 2007
The following is not a list of rules. They're suggestions to encourage guys to be gentlemen. Take 'em or leave 'em.
0. There are always exceptions to this list. The foundational exception is when you actually talk to the her and she says something different than what is included within this list. These suggestions don't provide you with the holy grail of dating or offer you the Ten Commandments for the Ladies Man, they're simply a push in the right direction for being a gentleman.
1. Open doors when possible - whether it be to a building or the passenger car door. the classic example that's stood the test of time.
2. When in a place of worship (or other places that have aisles and pews), if a man is at the end of the pew, when exiting he should stand in the aisle and let all the females go before him. (This seems odd to some people, yet normal for others. If you don't get it, don't worry about it, okay?)
3. A man should tolerate the occasional chick flick, musical, opera, or ballet - whatever her preference is - *without* complaining about it! (Because the guy may just like it.)
4. Play one of the songs that would make any woman weep like the little girl she once was (but in a good way). A brief list includes, but certainly isn't limited, to:
"You & Me" by Lifehouse
Anything by Frank Sinatra
Any rendition of "Everything I Do, I Do it for You"
"Collide" by Howie Day
"Out Of My League" by Steven Speaks
And MOST IMPORTANTLY "Question" by the Old 97's (if you propose to a girl with this song, she is putty in your hands).
("Putty in your hands" is not meant to promote "using women" in any way. This group does not encourage guys to be polite in order to get her into bed.)
5. Talk! The strong & silent bit goes from intriguing to boring quite fast.
6. Find out what her favorite flower is and buy them for her randomly (regardless of the situation you might be in). A simple yet profound truth: a single rose says more than dozens of anything else. (I encourage the women to not allow a guy to "prove himself worthy" through gifts and flowers and such. Trust is a precious thing and it should take a good chunk of time before he gains it back in your heart.)
7. If you miss her, or love her, TELL HER! Even your friends like to hear it every now & again.
8. Re-enact Zales commercials (the ice is nice but certainly not mandatory).
9. Remember: the best gifts you can give are usually free of cost.
10. Leave a note (or send a message) just to say "hi".
11. Ask her questions about herself.
12. Dress nice every once & a while. Any girl likes to see her brother/friend/boyfriend/etc. in a well-ironed button-up with some nice slacks.
13. PRIDE & PREJUDICE ...that's all I have to say about that (I mean, that should speak for itself). (It's even more impressive if he has read the book.)
14. Tolerate small children as best you can. Meaning, put up with the things that can get annoying. They're children, after all. Show them love and care, teach them how to become a better man than you. (You were once extremely irritating. Get over the obnoxious kids and enjoy getting down to their level - not "for her", but for the good of yourself and others.)
15. Learn to dance! There is nothing sexier than a man who can dance really well. If God did not bless you with the grace of Fred Astaire, at least put forth the effort, it will be greatly appreciated. Always slow dance (even if it's just like you danced in middle school). Also, men, sing to a lady. Even if you're terrible, suck it up! They love to listen to it and will not care what you sound like. It's the thought that counts on this one. Unless you're just downright terrible, nothing sexy about that. Haha, thanks, Jade!
16. Kiss her on the forehead.
17. When she's sick, stay up with her. If you can cook (which is *always* a plus), make her some soup. If you can't cook, there's Campbell's soup at hand for you.
18. Pretend to throw her in the pool (or fountain/pond). If you really do throw her in, you'd better jump in yourself. **NOTE** There are some women who just hate this apparently, so you had better do two things: 1) Never allow your buddies be a part of it if you're unsure of how she feels about getting thrown in and 2) You had better know how she feels about it!
19. Hold her hand while you talk, drive, or just for the heck of it (it's the small things that win you big points).
20. LOOK IN HER EYES, NOT AT HER CHEST!!!!!
21. Stupid jokes = awkwardly adorable moments.
22. Tickle her, tease her, let her tease you back without getting all bent out of shape about it.
23. Don't call her hot, or pretty, or cute; call her beautiful, because that's what she is. (I don't think cute is that bad, but definitely stay away from "hot" [it's so overused and superficial] and step "pretty" up to beautiful or gorgeous or stunning or captivating or...)
24. Offer her your jacket/sweatshirt. (Note: you may not see that particular item of clothing for a while, if ever again).
25. Don't be too proud to apologize.
26. It's not stalking to watch her sleep if you fall asleep watching a movie. It is stalking to watch her sleep if you're standing outside her window with night vision goggles.
27. When she feels at her worst, tell her she looks her best.
28. If you're trying to get more than friendship out of the relationship, take it slow and never rush her.
29. Just because you're a guy doesn't mean you are completely incapable of calling when you say you will, it just means you are highly incapable of it. There are few acceptable answers to, "Why didn't you call?", & being male is not one of them.
30. Don't check out other girls in front of your female friends/sisters/mother, unless you are sincere when you later ask them if you think she could introduce the two of you for more reasons than you "want to get some".
31. Guys - always offer to pay for the date. No matter how expensive it gets, especially if YOU asked HER on the date. [if she is willing to pay now and again, don't let your "man pride" get in the way of her wanting to give back to you. she should understand money can be tight - especially when you're always buying]
32. Always do everything in your power to keep her as happy as you can. And cheer her up in any way possible. [if she isn't always happy - and i've never met a girl who is - don't be afraid of her and don't be stupid and always, unquestioningly, blame it on PMS. be there WITH her when times are tough and she wants you there.]
33. When walking on the sidewalk, always walk on the outside near traffic. (So everyone has a different opinion for how this started. For some, it's because of the human waste that was getting thrown out the windows when this was happening a century ago. The woman walked under the overhangings extending from the buildings with the guy in the open to take the mess if need be. Others say it's from the guy's scabbard/sword being on his left with the woman walking on the right. As for today, it's the traffic and puddles and what-not. Whatever it is. It's just a courtesy thing, if it seems necessary.)
34. At least do everything in your power to keep cursing to a minimum while around her. If you can, cut it out period while around her, or cut it out of your vocabulary. Women don't want to hear it, guys don't care about it, adults don't want to hear it, it doesn't impress employers, and you sure won't want your children or someone else's to hear it!
35. Sometimes you have to take the initiative. Don't always wait for her to come to you, because if that's how it always is, you're going to lose her.
36. If any lady is walking alone to her car in a dark parking lot/garage, or is carrying a heavy load, always offer to help walk her to her destination and carry things, if not the entire load. **This may work a lot better and come off non-stalkerish if you at least know the girl you're trying to help. Haha thanks to a LOT of people on this revision.**
37. If a woman says no, let that be her final answer with maybe one question of confirmation after her first answer. Do not pressure or force her in any way after that. Don't make her give in to something she doesn't want to do.
38. Always be honest with her. No woman wants or likes a dishonest man. If you can't be honest with her, she can't trust you, and shows you don't trust her enough to be honest. Trust, honesty and integrity are just as an integral part of a relationship and just as important as love.
39. A man should always genuinely listen to women; no matter how bored or busy the man is. Actively listening to the woman will keep him from pain (and bring the man and woman closer together). This works best, of course, when both the man and the woman actively and equally engage in conversation (this includes listening). For the ladies reading this, please talk - always talk - especially if you are having problems with the relationship and to also avoid making bigger problems.
copied this from py's blog. so thanks py. i just wanted to spread the word around. cuz the world is getting increasingly deprived of gentlemen. sigh. sad
Q~ ♥
12/21/2007 10:03:00 PM
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Friday, December 07, 2007
yoyo!!! I"M IN TAIWAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
gosh gosh gosh gosh gosh gosh gosh!!!!
how perfect can my life be? lolx
gosh gosh gosh gosh
tell me wad you guys need okay? just email me or something lorhx..
omg
i'm seriously lacking of sleep and i'm seriously tired and i'm FREAKING HIGH!!!
Q~ ♥
12/07/2007 06:20:00 PM
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